Month: October 2024

The reason why some people still say, “My spouse should understand this is who I am,” is that they’re still operating as individuals, not as a united entity.

This is a fight, my friends, because what you once did solo and got away with will no longer slide. You both agreed to build a new body, a new life, the day you chose to walk as one.

Can love heal the wounds that the world inflicts? In every small action, our kindness is reflected. Is there magic in the simplest of things? A hug, a laugh, the joy that it brings.
Does love require us to give up our pride? To see through the darkness, to the other side? Is it in sacrifice that love truly thrives? In the quiet moments, does it survive?

In the dating scene, it’s usually the women pushing for commitment. Men, on the other hand, might be more focused on financial success and pursuing various romantic interests. Women are often viewed as natural homemakers, while men are seen as providers. These roles influence their attitudes towards marriage, with women prioritizing emotional and relational stability and men concentrating on external achievements.

For love is not for the weak, but the brave and kind, In you, my dear, a soulmate I find. Through storms and sunshine, hand in hand we’ll stay, In each other’s hearts, forever we’ll stay.

As we navigate through life, let’s strive to be more charitable in our judgments and more generous in our understanding. This approach not only resolves conflicts but also enriches our relationships and communities. We can build a world where tolerance, empathy, and mutual respect are the norms.

Yes, they quarrelled, but doesn’t everyone?
Life is a journey, and they appreciated that it is not only the good times that make life worthwhile, but everything in its entirety.
Nothing lasts forever, it is said. Yet they endeavoured to make the little time, the short time that they had besides each other’s presence count.

Your wife wants you to lead. You don’t need to control her. If you lead, she will follow. Don’t fight over power. Seek to empower her. If you lead, she will submit. Bring the best out of her. Help her develop her talents and gifts. She too wants to be fulfilled. Have a clear vision for your home, and she’ll support you. Learn to take initiative. Lead from the front. Be her role model. Influence her positively.

Another pervasive myth is that success is purely a matter of luck. These people look at a successful individual and attribute their accomplishments to sheer fortune. “He’s so lucky to have that job,” they might say, or “She’s so lucky her kids are so disciplined.” This mindset ignores the causes and effects at play. By waiting for their lucky break, these individuals fail to take proactive steps toward their goals. They turn to betting and gambling, hoping for a jackpot that might never come, rather than building success through deliberate actions and choices.

Women raised standards and consistently locked men out of the dating pool as they wanted the best for themselves.
When men raise standards and become high-value men, they are likely to lock many female jokers out of the dating pool.
But life is not a science.
All these are never perfect.
The question remains, will there ever be a time we go back to basics? To be human?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years, and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me as much as what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

I fell in love with all of you
I fell in love with your scars
the way you make sarcastic remarks
the way you feel helpless at 2 a.m.
The way you cry about something from years ago
The way you can sometimes get angry
Or the way you sometimes want to be alone

No two marriages are the same; 99 times out of 100, what works for one marriage will not work for another.
Perfection is a lie; in this covenant, we are all making progress.
Your beautiful couple’s crush on Instagram also has hidden battles; they are crushing privately.
The couple of goals you are craving on Facebook also have secret challenges they are trying to solve.

You will destroy her by picking on her mistakes all the time. Give room for errors, it’s all a part of the love experience. Don’t complain about the way she styles her hair, don’t comment on her heavy foundation all the time, and sometimes ignore the witchy eyebrow. Where you want her to be is a place where she feels good about herself, not that horrible place where she doesn’t feel good enough for you.

The misconception lies in the belief that love is inherently present in a relationship. This isn’t the case. Love resides within individuals, and it is these individuals who pour their love into the relationship, breathing life into it. Similarly, romance doesn’t just exist; it requires conscious effort to infuse it into the dynamic of the relationship. It demands thoughtful actions and gestures that kindle the spark between partners.

There is power in love.
Powerful enough for one to offer to another a chance to be not only part but their whole world.
Unique enough to be a combination of a warrior eagle and a gentle dove.
More than just a feeling that should soothe our nerves.
More than just a feeling of being excited and glad.