Year: 2024

Yes, they quarrelled, but doesn’t everyone?
Life is a journey, and they appreciated that it is not only the good times that make life worthwhile, but everything in its entirety.
Nothing lasts forever, it is said. Yet they endeavoured to make the little time, the short time that they had besides each other’s presence count.

Your wife wants you to lead. You don’t need to control her. If you lead, she will follow. Don’t fight over power. Seek to empower her. If you lead, she will submit. Bring the best out of her. Help her develop her talents and gifts. She too wants to be fulfilled. Have a clear vision for your home, and she’ll support you. Learn to take initiative. Lead from the front. Be her role model. Influence her positively.

Another pervasive myth is that success is purely a matter of luck. These people look at a successful individual and attribute their accomplishments to sheer fortune. “He’s so lucky to have that job,” they might say, or “She’s so lucky her kids are so disciplined.” This mindset ignores the causes and effects at play. By waiting for their lucky break, these individuals fail to take proactive steps toward their goals. They turn to betting and gambling, hoping for a jackpot that might never come, rather than building success through deliberate actions and choices.

Women raised standards and consistently locked men out of the dating pool as they wanted the best for themselves.
When men raise standards and become high-value men, they are likely to lock many female jokers out of the dating pool.
But life is not a science.
All these are never perfect.
The question remains, will there ever be a time we go back to basics? To be human?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years, and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me as much as what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

I fell in love with all of you
I fell in love with your scars
the way you make sarcastic remarks
the way you feel helpless at 2 a.m.
The way you cry about something from years ago
The way you can sometimes get angry
Or the way you sometimes want to be alone

No two marriages are the same; 99 times out of 100, what works for one marriage will not work for another.
Perfection is a lie; in this covenant, we are all making progress.
Your beautiful couple’s crush on Instagram also has hidden battles; they are crushing privately.
The couple of goals you are craving on Facebook also have secret challenges they are trying to solve.

You will destroy her by picking on her mistakes all the time. Give room for errors, it’s all a part of the love experience. Don’t complain about the way she styles her hair, don’t comment on her heavy foundation all the time, and sometimes ignore the witchy eyebrow. Where you want her to be is a place where she feels good about herself, not that horrible place where she doesn’t feel good enough for you.

The misconception lies in the belief that love is inherently present in a relationship. This isn’t the case. Love resides within individuals, and it is these individuals who pour their love into the relationship, breathing life into it. Similarly, romance doesn’t just exist; it requires conscious effort to infuse it into the dynamic of the relationship. It demands thoughtful actions and gestures that kindle the spark between partners.

There is power in love.
Powerful enough for one to offer to another a chance to be not only part but their whole world.
Unique enough to be a combination of a warrior eagle and a gentle dove.
More than just a feeling that should soothe our nerves.
More than just a feeling of being excited and glad.

Do you ever take a moment to pause and reflect on just how far you’ve come? Looking back on your journey, no matter the circumstance, is essential. Even if the night feels endlessly dark and dreary, there’s always a silver lining. Embrace the positive aspects of life and recognize the beauty that surrounds you.

Even when the world feels tough, you’ve got to find that inner stuff. Strength and courage, deep inside, to rise from the ashes and make greater strides.
Lift your spirits, stand up tall, Self-love’s the key to it all. When you value who you are, you’ll find love isn’t far.
In every challenge, there’s a lesson. Each setback is a chance for progression. Embrace your growth, celebrate you. With each new day, you’ll feel renewed.

oving someone is a beautiful journey of growth, learning, and giving. By embracing these principles, we can cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. It’s about striving to be our best selves and recognizing that love is a continuous process of learning and growing together. Embrace the journey, cherish each moment, and let love guide your path.

I asked for favours; opportunities knocked,
With each door opened, blessings unlocked.
In every chance given, skills I honed,
In seizing the moment, my talents shone.

Allow yourself to drift into this peaceful state. Let go of worries and fears, and let nature’s rhythm guide you to a place of inner peace and contentment. It’s in these quiet, reflective moments that you discover your true strength and resilience.