Browsing: Relationship

For the greatest of works are not wrought out of dread,
But spring from a heart that is valued and full.
The courage to conquer what lies up ahead,
Is first fortified where the home’s beautiful.

She asked her mother for a way out. What she received was a silent cure for a disease she didn’t know she had.

When he walks through the door at home, he carries the residue of this struggle. He may be tired, discouraged, or feeling insignificant. The common advice is to give him “peace and quiet,” to be a soft place to land. This is good, but it is incomplete. Peace is passive. What he often craves is active validation.

You needlessly create problems and crises in your life because
you’re afraid of actually living it.
The pattern of unnecessarily creating crises in your life is
an avoidance technique. It distracts you from actually having to be
vulnerable or held accountable for whatever it is you’re afraid of.
You’re never upset for the reason you think you are: At the core of your desire to create a problem is simply the fear of being who you are and living the life you want.

They are the quiet healers, the ones who find broken wings and help them remember how to fly. Their gift is not just their ability to feel deeply, but their willingness to act on those feelings—to extend themselves for the sake of another, even when they have little left to give.

All I need is a man with faith that outlasts sight,
Who trusts in our scars, our plans, our shared future.
He believes in beauty beneath the bruises
and finds hope in every scar’s silver thread.

Staying Out of Obligation: Remaining in a relationship out of fear of change, obligation, or convenience rather than genuine love can be detrimental to your emotional well-being. Love should not feel like a burden; it should inspire and uplift both partners.

Freedom whispers in the night,
Promises of boundless light,
Neither beauty nor gold’s grand might,
Can quell the spirit’s flight.

Lying in relationships is a double-edged sword. While it can sometimes protect feelings, avoid conflict, maintain privacy, and enhance romance, it also risks eroding trust, creating emotional distance, inducing guilt and anxiety, escalating into more lies, and undermining authenticity.

A relationship thrives on the soil of will,
Where two gardeners tend, and time stands still.
Harvesting joy from the seeds of strife,
Cultivating a bond for a flourishing life.