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Kindness is a treasure that everyone can afford. You don’t need to be rich to be kind; all you need is a rich heart. Kindness matters, and it has the power to transform not only your life but the lives of those around you.
A Short, Valuable Story** One sunny afternoon, a curious young girl approached a wise elderly woman and asked, “Do…
1. THE AMAZEMENT STAGE: This is the “wow” stage. Lots of new things to discover with your spouse. The newness,…
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Attitude: A positive outlook can transform challenges into opportunities.
Behavior: Your actions shape your reality. Act with intention.
Language: Speak kindly to yourself and others. Words have the power to uplift or destroy.
I am fully aware that there are bad marriages and bad examples of spouses, but the experiences of others are not my reality, no matter how bad the story is.
Think positively, let your mind be at peace,
Even when trials and hardships appear.
A positive outlook can change your world,
Turning fear into courage, and doubt into cheer.
Putting your spouse first and maintaining a balanced approach to family life is key to a lasting, fulfilling marriage. By communicating openly, sharing responsibilities, setting boundaries, being present, and celebrating milestones, you can nurture your relationship while also being great parents. Remember, a happy marriage requires intentional effort and dedication. By prioritizing your spouse and making your relationship a top priority, you create a strong foundation for a lifetime of love and companionship.
Criticism can be difficult to receive, even when it’s constructive. When you need to provide feedback or address an issue, do so with love and empathy. Use “I” statements to express how you feel and avoid blaming your partner. For example, say, “I feel hurt when…” instead of “You always…”. This approach ensures that your partner understands your concerns without feeling attacked.
When you ask your friend to help you, and they are in a position to do that, but they don’t, why do you still refer to them as your friends? And the same high standards you have with your friends or a stranger, you should have the same with your lover. That applies if they are in a position to help, but if they are not, then you should be able to understand.
Can love heal the wounds that the world inflicts? In every small action, our kindness is reflected. Is there magic in the simplest of things? A hug, a laugh, the joy that it brings.
Does love require us to give up our pride? To see through the darkness, to the other side? Is it in sacrifice that love truly thrives? In the quiet moments, does it survive?
For love is not for the weak, but the brave and kind, In you, my dear, a soulmate I find. Through storms and sunshine, hand in hand we’ll stay, In each other’s hearts, forever we’ll stay.
You will destroy her by picking on her mistakes all the time. Give room for errors, it’s all a part of the love experience. Don’t complain about the way she styles her hair, don’t comment on her heavy foundation all the time, and sometimes ignore the witchy eyebrow. Where you want her to be is a place where she feels good about herself, not that horrible place where she doesn’t feel good enough for you.




